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aliva_ru at Memo to parents of a child
1. Do not rely on force in dealing with me. It taught me to what is considered necessary only to force.
2. Do not make promises that you can not perform: it weakens my faith in you.
3. Do not worry too much when I say: "I hate you." I am not what I mean. I just want you to feel sorry for that that made me.
4. Do not do for me and for me that I'm able to do myself. I can continue to use you as a servant.
5. Do not correct me in the presence of strangers. I will pay much more attention to your comments, if you tell me everything is calm eye to eye.
6. Do not try to read I instruct and notation. You'll be amazed at how perfectly I know what is good and what is bad.
7. Do not make me feel that my actions - A mortal sin. I must learn to make mistakes without feeling that I did not pass on that.
8. Do not expose too much testing my honesty. Being intimidated, I can easily turn into a liar.
9. Do not protect me from the consequences of my own mistakes. I learn from your experiences.
10. Do not try to get rid of me, when I ask candid questions. If you do not answer them, you'll see that I did stop to ask you questions and I will look for information on the side.
11. Never even hints that you are perfect or infallible. It gives me a feeling of futility of attempts to catch up with you.
12. Do not worry that we spend with too little time. What matters is how we spend it.
13. Let my fears and concerns do not cause you concern. Otherwise, I will fear even more. Show me what is courage.
14. Treat me like you treat your friends. Then I too will be your friend.
15. But the main thing! I have so much love you! Please tell me the same ...
Pomyatka issued in Petersburg hospital
2. Do not make promises that you can not perform: it weakens my faith in you.
3. Do not worry too much when I say: "I hate you." I am not what I mean. I just want you to feel sorry for that that made me.
4. Do not do for me and for me that I'm able to do myself. I can continue to use you as a servant.
5. Do not correct me in the presence of strangers. I will pay much more attention to your comments, if you tell me everything is calm eye to eye.
6. Do not try to read I instruct and notation. You'll be amazed at how perfectly I know what is good and what is bad.
7. Do not make me feel that my actions - A mortal sin. I must learn to make mistakes without feeling that I did not pass on that.
8. Do not expose too much testing my honesty. Being intimidated, I can easily turn into a liar.
9. Do not protect me from the consequences of my own mistakes. I learn from your experiences.
10. Do not try to get rid of me, when I ask candid questions. If you do not answer them, you'll see that I did stop to ask you questions and I will look for information on the side.
11. Never even hints that you are perfect or infallible. It gives me a feeling of futility of attempts to catch up with you.
12. Do not worry that we spend with too little time. What matters is how we spend it.
13. Let my fears and concerns do not cause you concern. Otherwise, I will fear even more. Show me what is courage.
14. Treat me like you treat your friends. Then I too will be your friend.
15. But the main thing! I have so much love you! Please tell me the same ...
Pomyatka issued in Petersburg hospital
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